Oh, the excitement of a new relationship. There is no such thing, is it? The honeymoon of a relationship is awesome, everything is bright and wonderful, until the day you wake up and realize that you are a completely different person! “How did that happen?”, You can ask. Well, it’s probably due to semi-involuntary actions you did during the time you both were having some really big fun with your relationship. Wondering what these actions are?
1. NEVER PRETEND TO LIKE THE THINGS THAT YOU REALLY HATE
It is essential to always be true to yourself in a new relationship. If you love something that you really hate, just because your partner admires you, it does not really help you. So, whether it’s a rap song, an exotic cuisine or an adventure sport, do not pretend to love it just because you want things to work with your partner or think of you in a certain way.
2. DO NOT BE AFRAID TO ASK FOR PERSONAL TIME OR SPACE
If you need a little time, ask for it! You should not feel obliged to always be with your partner or to include him in your hobbies. If you want to spend the day with your favorite program on your PC or read a good book, go for it! After all, everyone needs a little time for themselves, even if they are in a relationship.
3. DO NOT STOP SPENDING TIME WITH YOUR FRIENDS
Now it is really important. It is great to have a new partner, but it is very important to remember to keep old ones. It can be very tempting to spend every minute of sleep with your new partner, but also take time for your friends. After all, they are always there for you anyway.
4. NEVER BE AFRAID TO SAY WHAT YOU THINK
Do you have an opinion about something? Dying to say something that has been in your head for days? Let your partner know that he understands how you feel in a particular situation, event, or thought. Talk about how you feel; you have nothing to lose. There is no point in leaving your partner in the dark about things. The more they know you at the beginning of the relationship, the better.
5. DO NOT CHANGE YOUR LOOK
If you have curls for days that you like, but your partner has a preference for straight hair, you should not change the way your hair looks. The same applies to the way you dress and how you reconcile. At the end of the day, it is important to stay happy. It makes no sense to change and be unhappy just to impress someone. Someone who is truly for you will love you as you are.